eHarmony

Ok so I am a paying member of eHarmony and I am starting to think that is worthless. I have been a member off and on for over a year now and recently decided I would try it for the full year they recommend to find your "soul mate". But I am already getting frustrated with it. I usually have around 50 matches on my page and receive about 10-15 new matches weekly. On eHarmony you can see who has viewed your profile. I view all my matches when I receive them and close them immediately if I am not interested in them. But obviously men don't think the same way. I had 8 views from 8 different guys on one day and none of them tried to communicate with me or close me. So I have no idea if they are interested or not. I have been getting advice the last few days that if I am interested I should take the first step and talk to them. Because in the good words of my friend Trish this isn't the 50's any more. But is it a bad thing to want a man who will take control and talk to me first? I don't want to seem to forward. I believe I am a good catch lol so I guess I will continue to pay a monthly fee to let someone else find my "soul mate" because we all know I don't pick so well! Any thoughts on this subject feel free to comment :)

Bad Language??!!

So I am just going to get on my soap box here for a minute :) Why do some people think that it is ok to swear or cuss in public loudly? I am not saying I never cuss or have never. I mean even my 70 something conservative grandmother lets out a s*&# when she is suprised. But really people do you have to cuss around children or even adults that may take offense to that. I just wish people would show some respect for others. Not everyone wants to know who you f***## last night or how d#$! hot that chick is. So please keep in mind how others may feel before you drop the f bomb or even say hell. Because some people don't like to hear it. Thank you in advance those of you who may now take this into consideration.

First Blog Ever!!

So this is my first ever blog! I am excited! Since this is new to me I hope everyone bares with me while I figure all this stuff out! I guess if you people are interested in my life they will get to learn about me. I don't know if I am that interesting but I usually have a lot to say! More to come soon!