Friday, July 2, 2010
eHarmony
Ok so I am a paying member of eHarmony and I am starting to think that is worthless. I have been a member off and on for over a year now and recently decided I would try it for the full year they recommend to find your "soul mate". But I am already getting frustrated with it. I usually have around 50 matches on my page and receive about 10-15 new matches weekly. On eHarmony you can see who has viewed your profile. I view all my matches when I receive them and close them immediately if I am not interested in them. But obviously men don't think the same way. I had 8 views from 8 different guys on one day and none of them tried to communicate with me or close me. So I have no idea if they are interested or not. I have been getting advice the last few days that if I am interested I should take the first step and talk to them. Because in the good words of my friend Trish this isn't the 50's any more. But is it a bad thing to want a man who will take control and talk to me first? I don't want to seem to forward. I believe I am a good catch lol so I guess I will continue to pay a monthly fee to let someone else find my "soul mate" because we all know I don't pick so well! Any thoughts on this subject feel free to comment :)
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Well, I think that guys are dumb too. You have to take that into consideration. Also, I do think that I'm right that sometimes you do have to approach guys but I also think that if you'd stop trying so hard and stop looking, then God would bring the right guy to you :) Just my opinion though, I would love to see you so happy!!! Anyways, good luck in your eharmony journey!!
ReplyDeleteCuz, I have to disagree and agree. If a guys interested he'll make a move. They're natural hunters. Lol. But I do agree when its the right time God will bring the man your suppose to be with into your life. Take what I say as you will. Martin is the only guy to take me on a date (not my only bf just the only one I allowed to take me out) so I might not get your position. But I do know that God told me Martin was THE ONE! Good luck love ya!
ReplyDeleteOK - I may be old and out of date but I got a couple of things to say here. 1. Even when you get to the meeting of these people remember this -- so far you only know what they tell you -- and remember that you know someone who might be able to run a background check on them for you. 2. I don't know what happened in your previous married relationship but I do vote that your X had no idea what a "precious stone" he was giving up - so get off that soap box. You are a woman with a lot of depth to you that I am not even sure your close family realizes. You certainly have amazed me with some of your opinions. I will tell you the rest of my opiniion on your past relationship later. 3. You were raised by parents who have implicable morales and that is why you feel like the man should make the first move. Your parents should be proud of you for that. You making the first move is entirely up to you, no one can command you to do that -- just make sure you use caution. 4. And remember - if you don't think you could/should introduce these new men to Dad - you probably shouldn't be dating them. Just my opinion. Love ya Jessica.
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